Relationship Rescue Advice from
Dr. Phil

So you're looking for a relationship rescue? Well here's a step by step list, straight from Dr. Phil (yes, the Oprah Dr. Phil), on how to quickly rescue your relationship. If you follow with these steps, your relationship WILL improve, there is no question.

First of all you have to re-establish a solid friendship for a successful relationship rescue. "Ask yourself what kind of friend are you being to your partner," Dr. Phil says. He asks a couple what they like doing with their buddies, whether it be talking about silly things or sharing a good joke together. Then he tells them to apply that same openness to their own relationship together. "If you want a good friend, be a good friend," says Dr. Phil.

After you re-establish friendship, now its time to get back to the basics of relationship rescue. "The idea is to have some concept of what a marriage and a partnership is supposed to be and start doing those things," Dr. Phil implores. define and copy down on paper what a successful relationship looks like to you then live up to those definitions. Look at the fundamental things that will make a difference in the long haul.

Next, cut each other some slack and meet each others' needs to rescue your relationship. "The success of a relationship is a function of the extent to which it meets the needs of two people," according to the Doctor. Find out what your partners needs are and do as best you can to fill them. "Maybe she needs a soft place to fall that day or she needs a shoulder to cry on," he says. You don't always have to agree with your partner, but try to figure out what their unique needs are, no matter if they are the simplest or hardest of needs.

A successful relationship rescue cannot occur unless you both take responsibility! I know you have no power over how your partner acts in the relationship, but you have to focus on controlling how you react to the negative things that are happening in your relationship. "You have to take one hundred percent responsibility for what you're doing in a relationship," according to Doctor Phil. "Decide what you believe and hold to be true, and conduct yourself 100 percent consistent with that."

The next part of your relationship rescue deals with creating realistic goals that can be reached. "Wake up each morning and say, 'What can I do today to advance the ball?'" according to the Doctor. remember to take baby steps, the small stuff adds up with time and will make a huge impact. Each and every day take a moment to set "baby step" goals that you can reach quickly, positive things that you can say or do with your partner. Remember that the little things count when you're trying for a relationship rescue.

Finally, take all the negative aspects of your relationship and write them down on a sheet of paper. Next to each one of the negatives, write down an action you could do to turn that aspect into a positive thing. For instance, if you write down that your relationship isn't any fun or exciting, come up with an outline of nothing but fun and adventerous things to do with eachother. Just tell yourself to turn your negative answer into a positive answer.

Relationship rescue takes effort, but it is a very hittable target. The most important thing is to HAVE A PLAN and then follow it. Most people just try random things and hope they work which they most often don't. If you really want to rescue your relationship, there is a step by step system that has helped over 6100 people in 67 different countries save their relationships. Click on the link below to see the system and also two great videos that will improve your relationship immediately.

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