How to Get My Ex Back Using the Power of
Emotions
by Hunter Riley
If you're like me, you probably have a thought
running through your head constantly and it has something to do with "how to get my ex back". Well read this short
lesson and you soon might get your ex back. Let's begin.
A few days or weeks after an initial
break up, you want to try to reestablish contact in a non needy way.Call and set up a "date" or meeting or whatever
you would like to call it. The most important thing you can do is make this "meeting" EMOTIONALLY
CHARGED.
No Starbucks, a walk in the park or even dinner and a movie, these things are ok, but
they are also boring and don't really create the "rebonding" that is so important to establish.Ideally, try to
create lots of little emotionally charged "tiny-dates" into a few hours time.
Why in the World would you ever want to do this?
Doing the usual 'dinner and a movie' doesn't allow you to take advantage of a proves
socialogical principle which states that emotionally charged experiences are also very strong bonding
experiences.
Imagine this for a second, especially if that major thought in your head is about how
to get my ex back.
The last instance you were in line at your ATM machine, do you remember the person
standing behind you? Do you remember the person standing in line in front of you. I bet you don't. I sure
don't.
Now...
Imagine that as you were standing in line, you guys were all held up by a robber in a
ski mask with a big gun. The robber is yelling at all of you in line to give him your money, he's really mad and he
tells everyone to get down on the ground. You can literally FEEL the tension of the situation.
So there you are, shaking and lying on the ground as he takes everyones wallets. Then
all of the sudden he stops yelling and everything gets quiet. You start thinking to yourself "Where did this guy
go?" and "Does he still have a gun pointed at me?"
As you look around, you lock eyes with the person who was in front of you in line and
you see that they are even more scared than you are. They are crying and shaking. In order to calm them down you
grab there hand and tell them everything is going to be fine, you'll protect them.
Here's the main point......Do you ever think you could forget
that person whose hand you just grabbed? Do you ever think that they will forget you? No way. You're not just some
random person in line anymore, now you are two people who have "bonded" through an emotionally charged
experience.
If the thought in your head is "how to get my ex back", take your ex on an
emotionally charged day or night out. In fact, try to make it many little emotionally charged dates over a matter
of hours.
Amusement parks are a perfect example with their roller coasters, haunted houses and
water rides. Tons of emotionally charged experiences there.
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